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Essay / Chick flicks and unrealistic expectations - 1170
Do chick flicks give women unrealistic expectations? The solemn aim of these films is to soothe a woman's soul, mainly dealing with love and romance which generally targets a female audience. They are usually emotionally rich and relationship-based; for example, An unforgettable walk. However, there is more to this. Women use romantic films as a form of catharsis, to give innocent men a break from their emotional girlfriends and to satisfy women's minds by giving them higher, often unrealistic, expectations. Catharsis is the process of releasing and, thus, relieving strong emotions or repressed emotions. All women experience it, even if they don't want to admit it. It is simply a way for women to release all the tension built up inside so as not to express their anger and stress towards their friends and family. What better way for a woman to use catharsis than to watch a chick flick? There is no better way. Even if the woman lacks love, friendship and does not want to be reminded that she does not have a “Prince Charming”, a chick flick remains the best solution to release these emotions. What most accompanies catharsis is ventilation. Let it go ladies; do not hold this anger to the point where it kills the heart. Go to the gym, scream into a pillow, attack a punching bag, go shoot people in a video game, run a mile, play to load music or anything that will help you release these emotions. Are you feeling better? Ventilation is the best thing not only for women, but for everyone. Sigmund Freud influenced everything from politics and advertising to business and art. Freud developed the theory of catharsis and psychotherapy within the framework of psychology. He believed that mental well-being could be filtered by putting aside impurities...... middle of paper ......my friends, you shouldn't depend on them! Living with four brothers, follow this advice. Men don't just sit at home and think about you like you expect them to. Sorry to burst bubbles here, but the only thing they're worried about (at least at a young age) is who's coming to the Halo party Friday night. The men look nothing like the well-painted male characters in these films, no matter how much we wish they were. When we find our “Prince Charming,” we should be given the utmost respect, but let’s not expect all those fairy tale endings. If they come to us, so be it. Women simply use romantic films as a form of catharsis, to give innocent men a break from their emotional girlfriends and to satisfy women's minds by giving them higher expectations. Once he enters your life, you will definitely have a better and more positive foundation than just chick flicks..