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  • Essay / Victims vs. Creators - 587

    Playing the victim in various situations is far from difficult. Victims tend to sit idly by and watch their lives fall apart. A victim is someone who blames others, predicts defeat, and also gives up. For example, in the article “Think of Yourself as a Victim or a Creator,” “what the first student said – “it wasn't my fault, it was the bookstore's fault” – was indeed true. However, this did not help his cause. In the end, she did not achieve her goal (getting the book). (David Marman) This person belongs to a victim because they made a false statement that cannot achieve its goal. Being a creator can also be difficult, but allows you to change the direction your life is going. A creator asks questions about how to achieve their goals, thinks positively and searches for a better choice. For example, in the article “Do you think of yourself as a victim or as a creator,” “the second student did not ask, “Whose fault is it that I don’t have the book?” but instead asked "What can I do to get the text I need?" » When her first answer didn't lead her to her goal, she asked the question again and again, until she finally reached her goal. (David Marman) This person belonged to a creator because he thought of ways to achieve his goal instead of blaming others for the situation. The idea of ​​the creator and the victim was invented by Dr. Skip Downing. If you think like a creator, you can achieve anything. If I think like a creator, I can achieve my goals of success in college, as well as success in life. My mother is someone I have considered a victim since the beginning of the school year; my assistant principal, Ms. Rungee, informed my parents and I to complete my financial aid. The financier...... middle of paper ......needs to have to succeed in life. I have learned to really think deeply about the problems I encounter. Anyone can succeed using the role of creator. I believe that if anyone has attended college, they should adopt college success strategies because it has helped me become the positive person I am today. For me, as a creator, it had a big impact on me and my inspiration in life. Works CitedMirman, Davis. Do you think like a victim or a creator? You are the prime mover, 2012. Web. .Gingrich, Rev. Elaine C. Torrance. Creator or victim? What is your state of mind? SelfGrowth.com, 1996-2013. Internet. .Emerald, David. Creators as victims. The power of TED*, 2013. Web. .