Is monogamy really the best relationship dynamic for everyone? Are people honest with themselves, their lovers, or even their spouses about monogamy? Apparently this is not the case, due to the seemingly common infidelity in today's society. That's why I'll explore alternative relationship dynamics, as well as the pros and cons of monogamy, polyamory, and other non-monogamous lifestyles. The idea of ​​non-monogamy seems to be on people's minds, as it has been popping up in popular culture lately, with shows like "Big Love" and "Sister-Wives." Why should the subject not be of interest to the public? It affects everyone, concerns how we form romantic relationships with each other, and influences the future of American family dynamics beyond traditional coupling. While many people in American society do not consider any relationship style other than monogamy to be legitimate, we often think of people other than our partners romantically or sexually, and some people may be better suited to non-monogamous relationship dynamics. . To support this conclusion, this article will explore the different styles of non-monogamy, examine the influence of genetics and biology on our relationships, and counter common arguments against non-monogamy, to show that it is 'a viable relationship option. Discussions about marriage and relationship styles, a controversial issue has been that of non-monogamous relationships in American society. On the one hand, some argue that monogamy should be considered the only viable option. From this perspective, many people believe that non-monogamous relationships are immoral and a threat to family and society. On the other hand, however, there is the argument that the expectations that monogamy sets middle of paper......promiscuity. " Nature Genetics 36.12 (2004): 1326-1329. Academic research completed. EBSCO Web. July 24, 2011. Newitz, Annalee. New Scientist 191.2559 (2006): 44-47. Academic research completed. EBSCO Web, July 13, 2011 . Oppenheimer, “Married, With Infidelities.” The New York Times, June 30, 2011. July 2011. .Thompson, Anthony P. “Extramarital Sex: A Review of the Research Literature” Journal of Sex Research 19.1 (1983). : 1-22. EBSCO Web. July 24, 2011. Genetic variation in the vasopressin receptor 1a (AVPR1A) gene is associated with bonding behavior in humans. United of America 105.37 (2008): 14153-14156. PsycINFO. EBSCO. Web. July 24 2011.