The new industrial society had a great impact on changes in humanity's way of thinking. Compared to thirty years ago, people's lifestyle today is more focused on self-satisfaction. In the 70s, many people were reluctant to realize their own desires because they were afraid of the judgments of closed generations. Time flies and things have changed. In the 21st century, we need to emphasize the “self” and lessen the weight of society's judgments. As people begin to become complacent, they are more open to what was once considered taboo, such as premarital sex. Sexual activity has always been a basic need for human beings. Not only is it necessary for human reproduction, but sex life is also a factor in predicting life happiness. There is debate about whether premarital sex is appropriate among unmarried couples. Proponents of this argument appear to have reasonable grounds to prove their point about the benefits of premarital sex. Even though sex is not the most important aspect in a relationship, it creates a feeling of connection between the two individuals. Besides, sexual compatibility is one of the keys to open the door to happiness in married life. Moreover, people make mistakes because later they will label them as experiences, and sexual competence is definitely one of the useful experiences for individual growth. Many religions prohibit sex before marriage. Catholic churches say that according to the Bible, premarital sex is called fornication, which literally means sexual activity between unmarried couples. Catholics believe that sex is a powerful gift that is given by God middle of paper......kills their own relationship because of it. Sex is not some kind of fun. Sex is about learning to please your loved one and discovering the real person within yourself. The first time you have sex is often considered the worst for most people. Many people think it is a great idea to keep their virginity until the wedding night to show their purity out of respect to their spouse. In fact, sometimes things never work out the way people want them to. No one would like to feel a painful sensation on the most intimate night they have been waiting for. Other than that, we want to enjoy our first moment as husband and wife. Sexual experiences now play an important role on the wedding night. All the skills learned during premarital sex would help them enhance the feeling of passion on the first night of officially being together..