The realization of a romantic relationship: why singular development is importantWhen two individuals begin a romantic relationship, they first show their best characteristics to their accomplices to keep them intrigued . Either way, routine quickly sets in and it seems like there is nothing to discover. Eventually, the energy that held the relationship together fades and continuing the relationship may become difficult. Most of the time, love and feeling are seen as a kind of individualistic sidekick combination, where each individual seeks to satisfy their needs at the expense of another, instead of attempting to develop and create. The moment one or both partners stop developing, the relationship enters a phase of stagnation that can prevent them from leading a happy life, or even result in separation. “The connections are like a movement, with an unmistakable vitality jostling here and there and then again here between accomplices. Some connections are the moderate and dark movement of death” (Dowling 79). That said, it is vital to the success of a relationship that its members continually seek avenues for singular development. As recent studies in the United Kingdom indicate, the emphasis on betrayal as the primary driver of separation has shifted to Wonder having "lost affection" (Dowling 102). This feeling is reflected in the fact that there is nothing but the same new thing to discover in the other individual and the reasons that made him fall head over heels in love fade with time. Put concisely, clinging to a “safe place” in the relationship is pretty risky. A pleasant relationship is verified by the effect...... middle of paper ...... that one will feel focused on being the sole provider and the other will feel unstable due to of the absence of a constant salary (Dowling 124). There can be no correct guidelines when it comes to such a close feeling as a romantic relationship. Every couple should look for what suits them best, because everyone is interesting. Again, it could be aptly expressed that, with the specific end goal of building a strong and reliable relationship, couples should pay close attention to their identity. It is surprisingly difficult, if not inconceivable, to improve the relationship itself or to change certain characteristics of an accomplice that one does not like. The key point is to recreate yourself. Despite being a seeming oddity, in reality the more attention you pay to your life and advancement, the richer the relationship will become..