My experience as a facilitator was never painful and difficult to manage. Therefore, my underlying goal was to focus on the here and now and how I could use what I learned in the classroom. When we recorded the video in our class with Brittney, we talk about the circle of victims. In other words, I was able to correctly identify patterns in her behavior when communicating with her husband, and how both fell into the same patterns and caused an endless circle to appear. Plus, I was able to use some of the language we talk about in class. For example: “What I understand is? », “Is this correct? and so on. In doing so, she was able to provide me with a more in-depth response to her conflicts. Another